Sunday, May 11, 2008

.: Family...Love...Frens...Life... :.

Family 亲情....Love 爱情...Frens 友情...
these are the 3 said more important elements of *Life*...
however...it's always very difficult to fulfill the parties from these 3 elements...

i remember when i was young..there's once..this old uncle told me this..
"every human being need 3 important things to survive...that is Family, Love & Frens...without these 3 things...a human being's life is never complete.."

wat this old uncle said had always been in me until now...at first i thought...i had already *have* n *own* all these 3 elements...is already a complete life...however..the older i grew..the older i am...i found out...it's not having these 3 elements that matters...wat matters most...which is also the most difficult part is...to maintain the relationship with the parties of these 3 elements...to find a balance in all these 3 elements...and also to make all the parties from 3 elements...into one big element...3 become 1..into happiness...

because in all these 3 elements...we only seek for one similarity...a common element among the 3...which is the seek for *happiness*....and this happiness is the seek for a life time....

and until now...after my 24th birthday...i can only really fully understand wat the uncle was trying to tell me then...only after so many years...i can understand the meaning behind those words...

well..maybe this is jus another philosophy of life...and because of these philosophy of life...it'd made us who we are today....people grows everyday...people changes everyday...and so does our thoughts...wat seems to be right for us in the past may seems right for us now...wat we had understood in the past may not be wat we understand now...

so all i can say is...to learn everyday...to appreciate everyone..everyday...every thing...and most importantly is to love yourself...a master once told me..before we can start to love others...we would have to start loving ourselves....

Thoughts: Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift..tat's why it is called present.........

my birthday celebration had past...thus it's a history ad...though it'd ended with lots of mixed thoughts n feelings...tomolo..is always a mystery for me..but will these mixed thought n feelings stick to me???...and today...amd sure these mixed thoughts n feelings are still with me..till present...
so..i'd made myself a task to accomplish...until one day...when these mixed thoughts n feelings leave me...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

.:these are the comments i got from my Wretch blog:.

well well well~ seems like little angel had many problems occurs again.

Let me tell u what FrienshiP(F) & LovE(L) means:-

F is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust
L is when you feel like you are the ony two around
F is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care
L is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart
F is being close even when you are far apart
L is when you can still feel their hand on your heart when they are not near
F is hoping that they experience the very best
L is when you bring them the very best
F occupies your mind
L occupies your soul
F is knowing that you will always try to be there when in need
L is when you will give up everything to be at their side
F is a warm smile in the winter
L is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart
L is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares

-A tender laugh which opens your heart
-A single touch that melts away your fears
-A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven
-A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth
F can survive without love
L cannot live without Friendship

I hope you understand this message, this message teach you nothing, but give u inspirations
ideas. Dont regret in any decision, bcause one wrong decision may effect F & L. This is not a choosing option, is just to let u know which one is important to you life. F is important but we
have to SEE which kind & L is important too but Is the partner the one like above message?

For Family, they are the very best things in everyone life. Is not easy to be a FamilY. No matters
what happen, they are always be there for you anytime & anywhere. They want all the very best thing in the world for you. Appreciate and respect and care and talk to them more often.

In the EndinG here, i would like to say not all this 3 elements can join together, some ppl can do it, some ppl cant, some have one, some only have two.

Is just that how we control and guide the 3 elements properly and carefully to join together. Is ALL IN OURs HANDS TO DO IT. Nothing comes NATURALLY without FIGHTING for it. Is all about time.
Remember lastly, Care about your Feelings and YOURSELF before you care your LOVE ones. This is Life, Circle of LIFE.

Regards
H.G.L

Anonymous said...

.:these are the comments i got from my Wretch blog:.

H.G.L: haha...what a nice comment and I totally agree with you!!! especially last 3 paragraph!!!

Sunnie: Yup...that is true that we as human every has a lesson to learn, that why come out with this '活到老学到老'. Althogh this 3 element is important but you have to figure out which is more important because each person has different thought. That all I can said... because comment above is great.

All the best!!!

Anonymous said...

.:these are the comments i got from my Wretch blog:.


All we need are MAGIC and MIRACLE in our life. Don't give up, LIFE is so wonderful in this world if we know how to enjoy LIFE in this WORLD.

As for me, as long as I'm happy with my life without hurting
anyone, I'm always Happy like my NICKNAME, HappY will GO become
LuckY. Understand the meaning? Once you had a Happy feeling, and
when it flown away, it will become LUCK for you.

Regards
H.G.L